ooh. havent been blogging this few days as i've been mugging my ass off. trying to revise whatever has been taught this past few months. exams are like next week and i still got lots more to do.shucks! ok been having study dates with people and i've been trying my best to ask people for help. and thanks everyone or anyone who has been helping me with my studies. i think that ii have this syndrome which makes me study so much until the very last minute till exmas start. haha!
now this is going to be rather random. but wth!
gosh.. i think im falling for him. he is like constantly in my mind without me realising. every minute, second, hour and etc.. i have been thinking bout him. he makes my day and makes me smile everyday. all his funny and stupid msgs make me smile till people think that i might be crazy. but this is seriously how i feel. gosh! is this feeling for real or just infatuation? hmm...
ohh.. watched tyra yesterday. and can i just say that i LOVE her. she is my role model. and i love how she helps all women in feeling how they should be without feeling insecure with their own bodies. so what?!


If we base our idea of what true love is on children's fairy tales, we might think that finding prince charming or an enchanting princess and living happily ever after is the ultimate goal. Movies often portray this same storybook image — that falling in love is really just that: falling, out of control, toward that one person who is meant to be with you and you alone.

But for most mortals, striving for such ideals is unrealistic, and may even leave us feeling unfulfilled or let down. The reality is that being and staying in love takes continual work and patience, even though this might not seem utterly romantic, in that storybook sense. Couples who have healthy relationships find ways of working together, and this in and of itself could be considered a sign of true love.

It's true that in many cultures, people who are "in love" create long-term partnerships and/or get married. We may hear of the ever-rising divorce rate, but lots of these couples do actually stay together. Yes, there are couples that have been married for 60 years and still feel passionately in love, and there are others who care deeply for one another even though the lust is gone (or maybe never existed!) These long-lasting relationships really do exist, but we just don't hear about them as often. Most of the time, people (and the media) talk more about the break-ups than the relationships that maintain themselves over many years because it makes for more interesting (and profitable) gossip. Of course, sometimes we may not even want to hear about the happy, lovey-dovey couples because we're feeling romantically unlucky or lovelorn ourselves.

Keep in mind that the reasons why some relationships don't last are as varied as the different kinds of people we are; in many cases, the partners simply grow apart because they have grown and changed as individuals, and seek different, more fulfilling opportunities for love. If a particular couple "falls out of love," yet each partner goes on to seek a more satisfying love with another person, could this be an example of "true love" in action?

Love can also vary by degrees: some couples feel deeply intense and passionate, while others appreciate one another for intellectual reasons or admire one another's ambition, dedication, or creativity. When is the last time you read a fairy tale where the main characters appreciated each other's brilliant musicianship, eloquent writing, or compassion for humanity? (Well, maybe in Shakespeare's writings...)

Perhaps, just for fun though, it might help to look at this elusive "true love" in another light. Look around you and see all of the expressions of love in our world: people devoting huge chunks of their lives for the human rights of others, people setting aside time to volunteer and help others in their community, parents and caregivers protecting and nurturing their children and families, young people learning from and sharing things with their grandparents. Or, how about giving and receiving unconditional love to and from the animals in our lives?

So, are humans capable of staying in love? Alice would guess that they are, as there are lots of models around us of people who love and care deeply about one another. Some people follow the philosophy of "better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." Instead of looking at all the heartaches around us, why not look to all of the examples of the different types of love in the world? Perhaps if we think of love as a broadly defined term, it's possible to see "true love" all around us.

i was just going through the internet. can found this online. and i think this is what true love really is.. and it really is meaningful to me. I love it!


OCTOBER=SWEETIE
Sweet and easy at heart. Strong-willed
and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts.
Easily angered. Attracts others and
loves attention. Deep feelings.
Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm
Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy
towards opposite sex. Easily consoled.
Systematic (left brain). Loves to
dream. Strong clairvoyance.
Understanding. Sickness usually in the
ear and neck. Good imagination. Good
physical. Weak breathing. Loves
literature and the arts. Loves
travelling. Dislike being at home.
Restless. having many children.
Hardworking. High spirited.

i think this is so true. i super Agree! hehe.